Agrimony: "between masks and wounds of the heart"

Author: Stefania Tamburini

When do we need the Agrimony flower?

When you are on the other hand Agrimony, you do not want to get in touch with all the emotions that a situation sets in motion in us because, if a certain situation puts in place emotions considered 'negative', such as anger, anger, frustration, we judge ourselves, we feel uncomfortable with these emotions feeling inadequate compared to these.

Like being angry makes us undeserving people. This is a pattern often activated by the wound of rejection, which activates the fear of not being loved if we do not manifest only the 'good' part of us, as if we were to experience only so-called 'positive' emotions.

So what do we do? We tell each other that whatever happened, that's okay, 'there's no problem'.
That's why it is said that Agrimony remains on the surface, not out of superficiality, but because admitting to ourselves that we feel such 'ugly' emotions makes us feel uncomfortable because we judge ourselves through these emotions.

An Agrimony doesn't want to get in touch with that part of himself, for example angry because, if he admits he is, he wouldn't feel like a good person.

But in this way we cannot take care of that part of us that, through these emotions, wants us to communicate an discomfort, a wound to be healed. Then you put on a nice smile, you tell us that there is no problem, that everything is fine so and so on!

Agrimony's hiring supports us in making us perceive all the emotions that a certain situation unleashes in us, but precisely all, avoiding judging these emotions and ourselves.

This allows us to avoid judging even the other people and their manifestations by accepting people and situations as they are and learning to bring out our darkness by welcoming and integrating it without being afraid of it anymore.

Stefania is Omega Coach, Holistic Operator, Reiki Level 3, Aromatherapist and Tutor of the "Essentials in Drops" course